My mom she is such a wonderful person a great mother and now am amazing grand maa too she is handling Every thing from last 40years she is a person who always think for others and for her family first then for herself

She is a person who in the morning finish up everything then when we all leave the house then she had a time alone for herself me and my elder sister we changed her entire routine so that now At least she will start thinking about herself , so we changed her routine by waking her up much earlier giving her 6-8 time to actually rejuvenate herself and think about herself and do what she want to do so when she started thinking about herself too and the minute she started doing that she felt so better and she is in a different mind set to deal with her family.
So it really matters sometimes you need to change your routine to find some time for yourself need to change your story sometimes you need to do a lot many acceptance and have to distance yourself form people to find yourself to do the things which we actually want to .

Because of the word selfish people do see it like negative which is not because from starting she is thinking and taking care of her family when she will get time for herself if not now then when so those were the small micro things if we change it will completely change what we manifest.
So it is really important to think about oneself first then only you can take care or can think of others too.
With Hope
Shini
